Important Words Well Said

You’ve likely heard about the tragedy in Kansas City over the weekend, but you might have missed these important words well said afterward.

Linebacker Jovan Belcher took the life of his girlfriend and then his own life in a horrific murder-suicide. I think it’s usually best in unthinkable situations such as these to stay away from generic responses, especially as an outsider looking in. All I can say is that I feel sincerely sorry for everyone involved and I’ll be praying for them in the days and months that follow.

But yesterday an insider shared more than just a pat answer in response to what happened. Brady Quinn, oft-chastised backup-turned-starting quarterback for the Chiefs, shared this in his post-game press conference:

“When you ask someone how they are doing, do you really mean it? When you answer someone back how you are doing, are you really telling the truth? We live in a society of social networks, with Twitter pages and Facebook, and that’s fine, but we have contact with our work associates, our family, our friends, and it seems like half the time we are more preoccupied with our phone and other things going on instead of the actual relationships that we have right in front of us. Hopefully, people can learn from this and try to actually help if someone is battling something deeper on the inside than what they are revealing on a day-to-day basis.”

I’m grateful for Quinn’s maturity and perspective, and for his strength to speak up, and speak up so eloquently, when it would have been easier to stay silent. Let’s take his advice and try to connect with each other today in meaningful, tangible ways, looking for opportunities to build each other up. It’s far more important than anything else we have to do.

Living In a Vision

I’m going to shamelessly plead with you to live in a vision.

Please, please, please take 1 minute and 48 seconds of your day to watch this video of Chuck Pagano’s beyond-inspiring post game speech to the Colts. It will make all of the difference in your Monday.

Here’s the transcript, from the NFL website:

“I mentioned before the game that you guys were living in a vision, and you weren’t living in circumstances. Because you know where they had us in the beginning. Every last one of them. But you refused to live in circumstances and decided consciously as a team and as a family to live in a vision.

“I’ve got circumstances. You guys understand it. I understand it. It’s already beat. It’s already beat. My vision that I’m living is to see two more daughters get married, dance at their weddings and then hoist that Lombardi (trophy) several times.”

Can he get an Amen?! What an amazing man. Let’s continue to lift Coach Pagano and his family up in prayer as he heads into his next round of cancer treatment. We wish you all the best, Coach!

For a Mid-Day Laugh

I love good sports writers – those who are accurate, insightful, and respectful. But an added bonus is wit…and this comment from Mike Tanier about interim Saints head coach Joe Vitt has kept me laughing for days:

Vitt is an old-fashioned motivator, not an X’s and O’s guy; Drew Brees called him “one of those guys who just loves his players” this week, while Junior Galette said that Vitt “says everything with conviction.” “He could say, ‘Hey, the sky is black,’ and he’ll get you to believe that.” Vitt is apparently even more convincing at night.

Seriously…every time I think about it I crack up all over again. Well played, Mr. Tanier.

Wait…What Just Happened : Throwback Jersey

Perhaps you turned on your television and saw this yesterday:

photo credit : USA Today

You may have assumed that either a) you were watching a rugby game, circa 1940, or b) something catastrophic had happened to the color resolution of your screen. Rest assured, it was just the Steelers’ version of the recently popular “throwback” jersey: a jersey from an earlier era in the team’s history worn once a season to pay homage to days gone by.

However in the Steelers case on Sunday, it was more a case of days gone awry.

Oh my land, oh my word, oh my eyes. The horror.

I originally thought that the Bucs creamsicle throwbacks were the worst in the NFL.

photo credit : ESPN

But then the Broncos showcased their ode to the days of yore, and that was clearly worse.

Denver Broncos Throwback Uniforms

photo credit : boldpost

And yet, somehow, the Steelers eclipsed the barrier for bad. I mean, the socks are bad enough. Adding a jersey to the equation takes it to a whole new level. These were just visually scarring.

photo credit : USA Today

For a complete dissertation on the Steelers throwbacks, see this Uni Watch article.

But for a short dissertation:

Wow.

Celebrate The Good

Let’s take a minute to address something that happened in the NFL yesterday, and then take some time to celebrate something good.

Matt Cassel, struggling quarterback of the struggling Kansas City Chiefs, got knocked out of the game yesterday – literally. He took a big hit and suffered a concussion as a result, lying motionless on the field for quite a few minutes.

And fans cheered.

Kansas City’s own fans. 

It was truly sickening. No one summarized it better than the Chiefs Right Tackle, Eric Winston:

From CBS Sports:

“We are athletes,” Winston said. “We are not gladiators. This isn’t the Roman Coliseum. People pay their hard-earned money to come in here, and I believe they can boo. They can cheer. They can do whatever they want. We’re lucky to play this game. A game. It’s hard economic times, and they still pay the money to do this, but when somebody gets hurt there are long-lasting ramifications to the game we play — long-lasting ramifications.

“I’ve already come to the understanding that I won’t live as long because I play this game, and that’s OK. That’s a choice I’ve made. That’s a choice all of us have made. But when you cheer somebody getting knocked out, I don’t care who it is, and it just so happened to be Matt Cassel, it’s sickening. It’s 100 percent sickening, and I’ve been in some rough times on some rough teams, and I’ve never been more embarrassed in my life to play football than in that moment right there.”

Gang, this is bad. It goes further than football – it speaks to the nature of our society. Lots of people are going to slay football today, saying that this is the result of a game that is no longer appropriate for our society due to it’s brutality, but I don’t think it’s football. I think it’s a culture that is, at times, uneducated, entitled, and immoral.

Personally, I believe that this is an unfortunate result of a society that no longer believes in the existence of absolute truths. The basic convictions of right and wrong seem to be lost. That has never been more evident than it was yesterday as 70,000 people cheered an injury that could have been at the very least career-threatening and at the very worst life-altering.

That was the bad and the ugly. But there was also good over the course of the football weekend, as the Colts overcame an 18-point deficit to beat the Packers in a victory that was 100% in honor of their head coach, Chuck Pagano. As a Packers fan, the loss concerns me because, good glory!, there are some glaring insufficiencies…everywhere. But even though the loss demoted the Packers to 2-3 on the season, I couldn’t have been happier for the Colts and Chuck Pagano. They truly deserved that win.

From Peter King:

There are a lot of stories in the naked city this morning — the Brees ascension over the great Unitas, the 49ers playing like the ’66 Packers, the air being let out of the Buffalo Counterfeit Bills, Eric Winston in a rage, Wes Welker with a needle, Chicago playing piranha defense, Minnesota shocking the world, Atlanta off to the best start in its history — but there is one story that stands above them all. The story is the game of the year.

Halftime score in Indianapolis: Packers 21, Colts 3.
Final score in Indianapolis: Chuck Pagano 30, Packers 27.

A few minutes before the start of Sunday’s game at Lucas Oil Field, just before going out for introductions, interim Colts coach Bruce Arians found his cell phone and texted five words to one of his best friends in coaching, head coach Chuck Pagano. Arians actually hoped Pagano was sleeping, but he knew better. The coach was two miles down the street from the stadium, in room C23 at the Indiana University Simon Cancer Center when Arians’ text showed up.

“Don’t think you’re not here.”

This is why we  love sports. This is why football matters.

Let’s be part of the intelligent fan base that refuses to celebrate violence but LOVES to celebrate true sportsmanship. Because it matters. It really, really, matters.

Just ask Chuck Pagano.

The Power of Prayer, for Everyone

Is any one of you in trouble? He should pray. Is anyone happy? Let him sing songs of praise. Is any one of you sick? He should call the elders of the church to pray over him and anoint him with oil in the name of the Lord. And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise him up. If he has sinned, he will be forgiven. Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective.

James 5:13-16

Sometimes it’s easy to forget that the people we see on TV are real people just like us, with real problems and real pain. Athletes and those involved in professional sports seem especially prone to this perception; their private lives, unlike those of celebrities, only occasionally play out in the public eye for all to see. We experience the high highs and the low lows they endure on the field and sometimes forget that they have lives off the field, too.

But this week, Indianapolis Colts head coach Chuck Pagano was diagnosed with leukemia. It was a sobering reminder that life is hard sometimes – for everyone. No matter who you are or what you do.

Since I’m both a fan of the NFL and a follower of Christ, I feel like it’s time to do more than just cheer for my team on Sundays. I’d like to go a bit deeper than that and start praying for the people who make up the league that I love. They play such a significant role in my day-to-day life even though we are complete strangers, so why not actively value them by lifting them up in prayer?

I’m not sure if this will become a regular blog feature or not, but for today, if you are a praying person, maybe you’d like to join me in praying for these people. (And if you or someone you know of would like to be added to the list, by all means let us know in the comment section! We’d love to pray for you, too.)

Chuck Pagano

From SB Nation:

News came yesterday regarding Pagano’s condition after he had reportedly complained of fatigue and bruising dating back to the preseason. Both of these symptoms are potential signs of leukemia, a type of cancer of the blood or bone marrow, and tests conducted last week, while the Colts were on a bye, confirmed the specific diagnosis of APL [acute promyelocytic leukemia].

Greg and Kara Olsen

From ESPN:

Olsen’s wife is pregnant with twins, but one of the children has been diagnosed in utero with a heart defect known as HLHS. (Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome.) The child, who will be named T.J., already has been scheduled for three surgeries, including one shortly after birth. His chances for survival are up to 70 percent. 

Tony Corrente

From Peter King:

Corrente checked into the M.D. Anderson Cancer Center in Houston the day after his final game of the 2011 season — the Detroit-New Orleans Wild Card game — for treatment of a thumb-sized malignant tumor at the base of his tongue, where it connects with the back of his throat. He had 13 chemotherapy treatments and 33 zaps of radiation in a short period, to attack the tumor aggressively. Doctors told him if the tumor had been discovered as little as three weeks later the news would have been very dark for him. But they began treatment in time, and in the spring, they found that the tumor was under control. He’s had two thorough checkups since, and both have given him a clean bill of health.

Eric LeGrand

From ESPN: